DEAR LADIES.!

Dear ladies,

You are wonderful  and powerful creation .You can create a niche for yourself and achieve the kind of greatness that will leave a mark in the anals of history. But a lot of you don't know your worth, so let me please give you some friendly advice. Here are some things that you should never do.

1.  Never Despise Yourself.
You are great and capable of achieving great things so believe in yourself. When things go badly never stop believing, hoping and trusting in yourself and in God. Some girls get depressed,blame themselves and lose self-esteem.All sorts of problems can follow.

 2. Never Get Obsessed with your Appearance.
I  think you look great (though some of the outfits you wear are worrisome ).Please be happy with the person you are and the body you have. Eat sensibly, take exercise and be healthy.Some girls become obsessed with losing weight or getting the perfect shape. Remember you cannot look like the girl in the magazine because even the girl in the magazine doesn't look like the girl in the magazine. You look fine. Love and appreciate yourself.

3.  Never Live Beyond Your Means.
Throughout life try to keep your spending within your income and so save a little.  Avoid getting into debt if possible. There are some exceptions – like getting a loan to start your own business – but generally if you can live within your means ;that is, with the money you legitimately earn, you will avoid all sorts of problems.

4.  Never Compromise Your Personal Safety.
Never put yourself at serious risk. This means that you cannot trust people until you really know them and that sometimes you have to avoid things that look like they might be fun. Never get drunk or take drugs. Never hitch hike just because you are a lady, yeah some men will stop to give you a ride but a lot of ladies have been raped and some gone missing in this kind of situations. Unfortunately there are some malevolent people out there and it is best not to take undue risks.

5.  Never Get Involved with a Married Man or be with a man because of  his money!
Omo, there are plenty of great single men out there with great potentials .Don’t get entangled with a married man no matter how attractive he or what he offers is . Also, never be with a man because of his money. Be with he that makes you happy, so that you will have a home and not a house. it will end in your tears, plus someday you'll eventually get married and "kama is a bitch".

6.  Never Compromise . 
Yes, I know a lot of men out there want to have set with you before they can help you but NEVER  let them. Prove to them that we still have good ladies with self esteem and value out there. You just have to Keep giving your best in the good things you do.Keep doing well with sincerity and excluding hypocrisy. Trust me, it might just take some time, but you will be surely rewarded.

7. Never forget to pray and trust God
In all you do, never forget to pray always. Be contented with what you have @ the moment. Never allow lust for material things engulf in your heart or the believe that you can use what you have(your body) to get what you want(money), this will lead to prostitution. Always do unto others as you would have them do unto you.

These are just my thoughts, I hope it helps. Have a great weekend folks. Cheers!